Prejudice

Last weekend I went with a friend to climb at Tre Cime de Lavarado. Super cool! We had perfect luck with the weather, two days of sun, almost too hot but a bit of rain on Sunday morning. We were really beat up after two long days of climbing, so leaving home at Sunday morning was not such a bad concept after all.

What strikes me about this trip mostly is the attitudes many of my friends had. They thought we were mad to go to Tre Cime. So much loose rock, so crowded, so dangerous, etc. It seemed that every one thought we were bound to end up in trouble. Couldn't have been further away from the truth. Yes, there was some loose rock, but it was always either easy climbing or then there were enough places of good rock that we could place some protection. Yes, there was sometimes a bit of a crowd, but it never bothered me. For the exception of one mountain-guide abseiling behind us, who demonstrated astonishing lack of social skill and a superior level of besserwisser-attitude. But most of the time both days, we felt like we were alone on the mountain. Perfect.

So, the friends who condemned our intention to climb Tre Cime, did not actually know what they were talking about. They just had a preconception of what the trip would be like. It seems to me that somehow people tend to exaggerate their fears of the unknown. People who haven't tried mountain climbing have still heard of some of the dangers of climbing, and think that all climbing is always dangerous. Dangerous situations provide juicy stories and it is easy to generalize that this dangerous situations are commonplace. In my experience, this simply isn't true.

I once was planning a trip through Eastern Europe, including Belarus. People were terrified. Belarus? There's corruption and it's a dictatorship. True, but at least the streets are clean. I was actually more afraid in Ukraine, which was then enjoying its newly acquired democracy, but suffers from petty crime. Belarus, on the other hand, has a strong and brutal police force, whereby petty theft is almost non-existent. So, Belarus is more safe for a casual tourist (as long as you don't get in trouble with the police). It was just that people who haven't been there, knew only the bad stuff, and thought that was the whole story.

It seems to me that people do not realize how little they know. They have heard one thing about something, and they think they know everything.

Syylliset esille

Sain taas muistuttaa itseäni; syyllisten etsiminen on täysin turhaa. Esimerkiksi työssä viihtyminen on vain ja ainoastaan jokaisen oman itsensä vastuulla. Olen viime aikoina syyllistynyt useasti erilaisten tahojen syyttelyyn monesta eri asiasta, mutta se on täysin turhaa. Jos minä en viihdy, on minulla ongelma, ei kenelläkään muulla. On vain minun vastuullani etsiä keinot viihtyvyyden parantamiseen. Yksi keinoista on toki yrittää vaikuttaa muihin, parantamalla organisaatiota tms., mutta suurin työ pitää tehdä ihan vain oman pään sisäpuolella. Viihtyvyys paranee huomattavasti ihan omaa asennetta muokkaamalla.

Konkreettisena esimerkkinä mainittakoon klassinen väittämä "Minä en ole sellainen ihminen joka tekee asiat tavalla X." tai "Minä en vain osaa tehdä asiaa X." Jokainen voi oppia. On vain kyse siitä haluaako oppia tekemään asiat tavalla X. Jos menestyminen on kiinni siitä, tekeekö asiat tavalla X vai ei, niin se on jokaisen oma valinta, haluaako tehdä asiat tavalla X, vai jollain muulla tavalla. Toisin sanoen, jos menestyminen edellyttää asian X tekemistä, kannattaa se asia X tehdä, vaikka itse en olisikaan siinä niin taitava, tai en pitäisikään oikeastaan asian X tekemisestä. Härkää sarvista, jne.